Five Years In, Still a Lifetime of Work Ahead

This year marks a few milestones for Veglio.  It is the fifth year of active restoration and the main house is pretty much done. Just a little piece of roof replacement and two rooms that can be fixed up whenever we spend the time and money to complete them.

It also marks the first year we don’t have any kids with us on our visits.  Here in California as we start to think about packing for our annual pilgrimage, we also are celebrating our two youngest kids moving on to finish school.  Kurtis in Brooklyn, Lexi closer to home to get her teaching degree.  Alex continues to build a life in the Midwest with her roots sunk pretty deep in Chicago.

We have been so blessed to share our journey with many “kids”.   Our own and our nieces, nephews, friends and students.   As parents and in our decidedly middle age, we hope that what we have done and what we do makes for strong values and experiences rooted in our history and the lessons of the ancestors.

Growing up on the California North Coast, I love trees and feel no greater joy than when I walk through a forest or take a rest under the canopy of tree.  One of the hardest things to do when planting trees is to establish roots.  The shock of the planting and the fragility of the young plants make it a hit or miss whether a little apple or plum or cherry tree is going to survive the first few years.

Kurtis and Andrea 

For centuries, wise farmers have known that you can take a young shoot from one tree and graft it on to an older tree.  Properly cared for, this young sapling takes hold and grows using the base on the older tree and roots.

I guess that is ultimately what we are trying to do with our project.  Give our kids the strong roots that will keep them grounded through all the crazy shit that is happening in the world.   To take care of this planet and be kind and helpful to those that may need it.

Lots of people ask whether we are building an investment property.  Especially those here in Southern California, where real estate is seen as a temporary asset to be bought, built and sold.  Not a home or a set of roots. 

Hairy Harry Bryan--Nephew and Demo King

We are building an investment, but I am hoping one that will provide a different kind of return.  What happy memories of nephew Harry exhausted but smiling after taking out the centuries old plastered and decaying kitchen ceiling with a giant sledge hammer.  Or Sam Pontillo four stories up setting stone with Andrea.  Both working physically harder than they had ever worked, but seeing the beauty of working as a team and with their hands.

Our girls putting cross word puzzles together under the light of candles before we finished the electrical or brother Ken chiseling away at the repair of 500 year wall.  All decidedly much different experiences that somehow gave them a sense of  a different life than merely the pursuit of things and status.

Ken with Michaelangelo Technique

Now most of “kids” are busy starting lives of their own. I suspect we will have a little lull.  Careers to start, families to launch, their own homes to buy. 

So we have a new phase of work to create a place where we "older generation" can find beauty and comfort to restore our souls from the hectic urban life we live most months of the year.   We plan on working in the gardens, planting some new trees and building walkways.

And also to make our village relevant and accessible for our kids when they are once again ready to be part of this.   So they can easily come back to find themselves when things may not make sense.  Without financial or physical hardship to make the long trip.  To laugh and to listen to the voices that came before. 

Chapter Three: Challenging the Status Quo

I cannot believe it has been four weeks already since we arrived.  I had meant to write more often, but somehow the time here has taken over.  Out of the month we have been here, there has been all of two days when we have had quiet time.

The place reveals itself as one of gathering.  We call it the Veglio math.  If you start out with plans for 6 people for dinner, just automatically double it.   I have now learned that when you make a risotto, use two handfuls per person not one as instructed by our teacher. Then, add 49% more, carry the two and arrive at the right amount for this place.  Always assume there is the need to make a little more room at the tavola.

After our initial workshop for permaculture,  we had about a week where we kicked back in Barcelona and then had a few days to ourselves to paint the upstairs.

For the past week, we have been joined by a group calling themselves Pesci Piccolo(little fishes).  Starting with just a few people the first days, more show up each day.   The group is a collection of artists, musicians, actors and other creative from mostly Italy and France, but also now places like Egypt and Iran.

 

They gather each summer to create during a two-week retreat.  Each person conceives an idea that is then evaluated.  Teams are selected for each idea and then a “show” is produced in the local area. 

It has been incredible to have the house filled with music from all corners of the world.  Guitar, flute, stand up bass and accordion so far that join voices on songs ranging from traditional Piemontese to the sound track of Brother Where Art Thou.

Much like our first group, these are mostly young people who are looking to create a different life.  Challenging the status quo of the past few decades and seeking to return to a more shared life in community.   Not content to take a traditional job and the trappings of the accumulation of stuff.

This concept of community has been the biggest eye opener for Linda and I this Summer. At first, we were a bit hesitant to have all these “strangers” in the house but we have been amazed at how respectful each of them has been.

Maybe we can bring some of this spirit back to Orange County.  For there, we are far too isolated in our houses and in our cars and in our pursuits of individual success.  This re-balancing seems to be a recurring theme in not just our lives but so many around us.

Chapter Two: Workshop Ends, Thinking Begins

We are lounging around a hotel outside of Barcelona today.  We sent the last of the participants home on Monday morning , spent the afternoon in Veglio cleaning the house, washing sheets and taking the leftover food to Trontano.

After months of planning, the Spring scramble of construction and a week  of 20+ plus people around the table, it is hard to believe it is over.

Best Classroom Ever..Mark in his Element

Our days together were a blur of lectures in the old kitchen, 10 mile hikes, cutting in the fields, dunks in the creek, cooking, cleaning, snoring, laughing and singing.

The first night, hardly anyone slept.  90 degrees, all these strangers tucked in every nook and cranny in the house.  Strange noises, dust falling from the unfinished ceilings in the summer bedrooms, people crawling down two sets of ladders at three in the morning.  Like your first day of school, everything so foreign and dark in the middle of the night.

Tom Belting Out Spanish Songs

But how quickly the uncomfortable newness gave way to the bonding of friendship.  We were concerned about meal preparation and cleaning for such a big crowd.  That fear quickly vanished when we started to make our first lunch together.  People started filtering into the big kitchen while we were prepping to offer their help. 

Like a jazz band, everyone just seemed to pick up the beat and soon enough plates were set, salads were made, cheese was grated, wine poured and before you knew it everyone was laughing around the big table.

The same thing happened with clean-up.  We had to actually encourage people to relax a bit and not race to wash dishes.  Our “master plan” of spending each night making a detailed chore chart quickly went by the way side. 

In the end, our job was to simply make sure our food arrived up the mountain each day to stock the old cantina(cellars) and then to adapt the menu to the fresh veggies that we could pick from the gardens.

Lukas and Beatrice...Homemade Bread

There are so many incredible things that happened, it is really hard to pick out just a few. 

An empassioned candlelight talk from Giolle about his call back to the land, Daniele Testori explaining the dramatic forces of the Alpine geologic forces on our lives, a “surprise” visit from Dick and Kathy from California. 

At first,  both Linda and I kept saying how lucky we were to have such a perfect combination of participants for our first workshop.   But we now replace the word “lucky” with telling people how “blessed”  we have been. 

There are clearly some other powers in motion that are guiding our collective work together.   And not just in Veglio, for each participant came to this place and time to share their dream of something different.  New farms in Tuscany and Spain and the US, new seed research, training sites, clothes designs…to name a few.

Saying Goodbye

It ultimately was this collective hope of something better that caused this special group to make such beautiful music together. 

Chapter One: Summer in Veglio

Two of our volunteers from the music and acting troupe

With so many activities this year, I thought I would write more short updates on our experiences.

We arrived in Italia on Wednesday afternoon.  Smooth flights from LAX, through New York and onto Milan.  I had the bright idea of a new train right to Domodossola that turned a few hour trip into, let’s just say much more.

We finally settled into the house, which for the first time, we have our bedroom ready, two bathrooms and the beautiful new(600 year old) kitchen.

What we use to turn one piece of beef into two!

Our workshop starts next Tuesday so we have been crazy getting the house and property ready.  We have volunteers from a local art and theater group who are helping out which is great. 

Today was a strange day.  While Linda and I were catching up on sleep, one of the young bull cattle that grazes the hillsides tripped on an old stone terrace and proceeded to roll down the hill…a quarter mile down the hill. 

So, a frantic race to quarter the animal and haul the meat up the mountain ensued.  We now have the head and four parts hanging in the cellar awaiting a visit from the butcher to finalize the preparation. 

Some of you may remember the new painting that hangs in the old church by Fredy Buchwalder. The painting depicts the Madonna, baby Jesus, Saint Mark and another Italian saint.  There is a “sister” painting that was deemed too controversial to be placed in the church so we are putting that painting in the house.

Andrea called to say that we should walk down and pick up the painting.  Good idea, but a few details that added complexity. “Down the hill” to Fredy’s is about one mile.  Secondly, the painting is about 4 feet by 6 feet.  Lorenzo, the leader of the theater group, and I ran down the hill to meet Fredy at his studio.

Temporary Resting Place for Madonna

We then proceeded to carry the Madonna di Veglio up the gravel road…one mile up a pretty steep slope.  We tried many different techniques to handle her with care. Finally, we took off our shirts and piled them on our heads. From there, Madonna went on top of our heads, balanced rather precariously.

The “Pilgrims” arrived safe and sound.  With the warm weather, we have been eating under the stars.  A wonderful meal followed this crazy day with songs in French, Italian, English and local dialect being sung until midnight.

In the morning, we pick up Alexandra at the airport.  Just a few more days til our guests arrive.  Hopefully, the bull parts will make their way to the locker soon!